Goodbye 2020

I guess that most of us are glad to see the end of 2020. Lockdowns, social distancing, masks, sanatizing hands, isolating, bubble groups, are all terms we have become familiar with because of coronavirus restrictions and will still be part of life for the foreseeable future. We have experienced life with churches shut; gyms shut; schools shut; non-essential retail shut; and travel restrictions in place. Many people furloughed or working from home. Politicians squabbling over it and some even breaking their owns rules. In fact, the media has been dominated with it and, of course, social media has had plenty of conspiracy theories too! Perhaps you wish you could wake up in the morning, realize it was all just a bad dream and life is back to the way it was before. Unfortunately, that cannot happen. Mental and spiritual health have been affected. The economy has suffered. But worst of all, people have died from covid-19. 

However, I wish to share some of my precious and positive memories of 2020, despite all the restrictions. Here are just a few photos and reflections:

During the first lockdown we used to clap our NHS heroes. My hero and key worker Adrian had to keep slogging away during lockdown to help make sure people had meat on their tables. We tried to fix each other's hair as hairdressers were closed. Wow, that gave some fantastic photos that are better not shared! 😲😏 We learned how to sanatize and wash our hands... and keep 2 metres apart when we had to do essential shopping. Panic buying of toilet rolls and other products left some empty shelves in stores for a time. Then, we had to wear face coverings / masks and they eventually became mandatory. I suppose they disguise our appearance and, should you step into a supermarket without one on, people have the manners to stand back from you. 😂

Walking

Thankfully God gave us a nice bit of sunshine during the first lockdown, so we could enjoy some time outdoors in our back garden or take a walk. Adrian and I love walking and, of course, Bridie is always ready for 'walkies' but with all the lockdowns and coronavirus restrictions in 2020 I think Bridie has been walked more than ever! Peatlands Park and Windmill Wood are local favourites, rather than going to shopping centres. We got so many laughs from Bridie climbing trees and chasing squirrels. 😂😂 

Worship

Churches were closed for a time and moved their sermons online and, hence, discovered new opportunities with a wider audience to preach to. However, I must say that I much prefer to meet together for church services than to listen online. That's why when drive-in church services were allowed, Adrian and I really enjoyed going to them. 

Crafting and DIY

When Isaac was furloughed from work in the first lockdown, him and I got some painting done. That and new blinds helped to cheer the house up a bit. Also, I enjoyed crocheting Ireland, even though, I haven't found a use for it yet. That's it on a king size bed in the photo below. Ah well, I suppose I will have it as a memory of 2020 lockdown. 

Staycation

Staying local, rather than taking vacations abroad was maybe more the done thing in 2020 because of the uncertainty of travel regulations. So, when restrictions eased a little after the first lockdown, Adrian and I chose day trips for our staycation instead of staying away in a hotel or B&B. Portrush, Newcastle, Bangor, Scrabo and Hillsborough park all made lovely day trips. Walking, rather than shopping, was always our focus on these days out. And there's always a first time for everything. For me, in Sept 2020, it was the first time I walked all the way along the East Strand in Portrush to the White Rocks and back again. 

Family

Isaac finished a personal training course and truly is passionate about training people in fitness. Well done to him! 

Jemima turned 25 years old in June and Bridie turned 2 years old in June. 

Both Adrian's mum and my Mum went to live in care homes shortly before the pandemic broke. This gave peace of mind that they were being kept safe and well cared for. Thankfully both have tested negative for coronavirus. The care homes have worked hard to try to keep the virus out. That has meant great restrictions on visits in controlled setups, with masks and social distancing, and even some window visits. Thankfully, I have been able to visit mum several times. Sadly, Adrian has not been able to visit his mum since end January /beginning of February 2020.

But one of the most special highlights of 2020 was Jemima and Josh getting engaged. The excitement of wedding plans are a delight. We are so looking forward to their big day! 

Conclusion

So, as we said goodbye to 2020, 

1. I can look back and remember some good times, family times, precious memories, despite all the difficulties and restrictions. 
2. I am truly grateful to the Lord for everything He has done for us. We have not starved nor wanted for any good thing. 
3. My heart goes out to all the families who had empty chairs and tear-stained pillows at Christmastime because of losing loved ones. 
4. It has never ceased to amaze me at how politicians and other leaders have stumbled through the pandemic, doing the best they can, but not bringing God into the equation. 
5. I think, as we leave 2020, we have plenty to pray to God about. 

Remember, the conditional promise that God has given to His people:

"If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land." 2 Chronicles 7v14

Despite all the negatives because of restrictions in 2020, may 2021 blossom with positives to glorify God. Best wishes and keep safe!