Saturday, 25 December 2021
Christmas Sadness
Monday, 15 November 2021
All Creation Groans
Thursday, 7 January 2021
Goodbye 2020
I guess that most of us are glad to see the end of 2020. Lockdowns, social distancing, masks, sanatizing hands, isolating, bubble groups, are all terms we have become familiar with because of coronavirus restrictions and will still be part of life for the foreseeable future. We have experienced life with churches shut; gyms shut; schools shut; non-essential retail shut; and travel restrictions in place. Many people furloughed or working from home. Politicians squabbling over it and some even breaking their owns rules. In fact, the media has been dominated with it and, of course, social media has had plenty of conspiracy theories too! Perhaps you wish you could wake up in the morning, realize it was all just a bad dream and life is back to the way it was before. Unfortunately, that cannot happen. Mental and spiritual health have been affected. The economy has suffered. But worst of all, people have died from covid-19.
However, I wish to share some of my precious and positive memories of 2020, despite all the restrictions. Here are just a few photos and reflections:
During the first lockdown we used to clap our NHS heroes. My hero and key worker Adrian had to keep slogging away during lockdown to help make sure people had meat on their tables. We tried to fix each other's hair as hairdressers were closed. Wow, that gave some fantastic photos that are better not shared! 😲😏 We learned how to sanatize and wash our hands... and keep 2 metres apart when we had to do essential shopping. Panic buying of toilet rolls and other products left some empty shelves in stores for a time. Then, we had to wear face coverings / masks and they eventually became mandatory. I suppose they disguise our appearance and, should you step into a supermarket without one on, people have the manners to stand back from you. 😂
Walking
Thankfully God gave us a nice bit of sunshine during the first lockdown, so we could enjoy some time outdoors in our back garden or take a walk. Adrian and I love walking and, of course, Bridie is always ready for 'walkies' but with all the lockdowns and coronavirus restrictions in 2020 I think Bridie has been walked more than ever! Peatlands Park and Windmill Wood are local favourites, rather than going to shopping centres. We got so many laughs from Bridie climbing trees and chasing squirrels. 😂😂
Worship
Churches were closed for a time and moved their sermons online and, hence, discovered new opportunities with a wider audience to preach to. However, I must say that I much prefer to meet together for church services than to listen online. That's why when drive-in church services were allowed, Adrian and I really enjoyed going to them.
Crafting and DIY
When Isaac was furloughed from work in the first lockdown, him and I got some painting done. That and new blinds helped to cheer the house up a bit. Also, I enjoyed crocheting Ireland, even though, I haven't found a use for it yet. That's it on a king size bed in the photo below. Ah well, I suppose I will have it as a memory of 2020 lockdown.
Staycation
Family
Isaac finished a personal training course and truly is passionate about training people in fitness. Well done to him!
Jemima turned 25 years old in June and Bridie turned 2 years old in June.
Both Adrian's mum and my Mum went to live in care homes shortly before the pandemic broke. This gave peace of mind that they were being kept safe and well cared for. Thankfully both have tested negative for coronavirus. The care homes have worked hard to try to keep the virus out. That has meant great restrictions on visits in controlled setups, with masks and social distancing, and even some window visits. Thankfully, I have been able to visit mum several times. Sadly, Adrian has not been able to visit his mum since end January /beginning of February 2020.
But one of the most special highlights of 2020 was Jemima and Josh getting engaged. The excitement of wedding plans are a delight. We are so looking forward to their big day!
Conclusion
So, as we said goodbye to 2020,
- I can look back and remember some good times, family times, precious memories, despite all the difficulties and restrictions.
- I am truly grateful to the Lord for everything He has done for us. We have not starved nor wanted for any good thing.
- My heart goes out to all the families who had empty chairs and tear-stained pillows at Christmastime because of losing loved ones.
- It has never ceased to amaze me at how politicians and other leaders have stumbled through the pandemic, doing the best they can, but not bringing God into the equation.
- I think, as we leave 2020, we have plenty to pray to God about.
Remember, the conditional promise that God has given to His people:
"If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land." 2 Chronicles 7v14
Despite all the negatives because of restrictions in 2020, may 2021 blossom with positives to glorify God. Best wishes and keep safe!
Friday, 29 May 2020
When the lights went out
Today you may be feeling great pressure upon your faith in God. Perhaps this lockdown and isolation from friends and church has caused you to doubt, question or despair of your faith in Christ. Maybe the Bible is not as precious to you as it used to be. You are crying for help and the temptation is to give up on your faith. Satan would love to destroy you and make you a failure BUT remember Jesus is praying for you in heaven (Romans 8v34; Hebrew 7v25). His prayers cannot fail. He has purpose for your life.
In conclusion, I hope these points will be helpful:
- Just as the stars seem to shine brightest in the darkest night, so you can shine in the darkness that you are experiencing at this time.
- The Lord Jesus understands and cares about you in all your struggles and you can trust His praying for you, so leave your life in His hands.
- Your faith may falter but it will not fail when Jesus is praying for you.
- God will give you the privilege of fulfilling the purpose He has for you after your faith is strengthened.
Tuesday, 28 April 2020
Questions in Lockdown
1. How are you using this time in lockdown to evaluate what matters in life?
Yes, you may have less stress from running in the rat race of life and there may be less pollution in the air but have you been rediscovering the little things that matter in life? Has spending time with your family cooking, painting, gardening, reading, listening to music and online info, etc. given you a new appreciation of family life? What precious times do you plan to continue after lockdown? Will you view your employment differently when all this is over? What and who will you value more?2. What are you doing to benefit your spiritual, physical and mental health?
Yes, you need proper rest, good diet, and exercise. Perhaps you have been spending time on your hobbies and even DIY jobs around the house. These are all very beneficial for your well-being but do not forget to take time out for God. Also, remember to share the load of household chores and if you are struggling with home educating your children, make sure to take time out for yourself.3. If you believe in God, do you turn to HIM first with all your heart in this crisis?
Yes, it is good to heed the advice of the experts and follow the government's guidelines for keeping safe. But perhaps as you listen to all the media reports your heart is filled with worry and fear.Remember, Jesus said: "Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in Me." (John 14v1)
"Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths." (Proverbs 3v5+6)Trust the Lord in the crisis and trust Him to solve it, even though we may have many questions about why it is happening.
4. If you believe God answers prayer, are you trusting God to answer prayer?
There are so many things to pray for: Those suffering and bereaved, world leaders, church leaders, medical staff, key workers, wisdom and healing, and much, much more. Pray people will turn to God through this pandemic. However, it is so easy to say prayers that are really only from the lips and not from the heart. Trust God with all your heart to answer prayer.Jesus said, "Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them." (Mark 11v24)
5. If you believe the 10 commandments are God's moral rule for our lives, what are you doing to keep them during lockdown?
I suggest that you get your Bible out and go down each commandment as found in Exodus 20v3-17, carefully considering how you can keep these commandments during lockdown. Don't forget to consider how your time on the internet and social media relates to them. Don't forget your heart attitude as well. I think if we are honest we all fail to keep the 10 commandments perfectly.6. If you are a Christian, how are you practising Christ's command to love thy neighbour as thyself?
Jesus taught that we are to love God first and that we are to love our neighbour as ourselves (Matthew 22v37-39). Our neighbour is not just the person who lives next door but other people too. You may not be able to get out during lockdown and isolation but that doesn't mean you cannot keep in touch with and care for others. A little text or phone call may be all it takes to encourage and help others. Praise God for social media and all the benefits of modern technology. Of course, you may even be able to bring essentials to those who cannot go out. Perhaps you know someone vulnerable or in danger??7. How are you making use of all the volume of good material and sermons online?
Now that the churches are closed, it would be so easy to forget about listening to sermons and just let Sunday pass as any other day. However, most churches are providing teaching for adults and children by various means online. In fact, I have never seen my Facebook newsfeed so filled with good sermons, children's talks, helpful blogs, hymns and gospels songs. Research these for yourself.8. Are you thankful?
The Bible tells us, "In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you." (1 Thessalonians 5v18)Be thankful for your blessings, food to eat, and lovely weather. Just imagine what lockdown would be like inside in the cold and wet! I am so thankful for being able to enjoy the sunshine in my back garden. Praise God for answered prayer and for all those who recovered.
9. Are you hopeful?
Yes, we hope it will end soon. Hope for vaccine/cure. But the Bible talks about the living hope we have through Christ. Read 1 Peter 1v3-5. This is not just some hope for the best, maybe it will happen by chance idea. No, this Biblical hope is steadfast, as if we already had it. Do you possess that living hope and strong assurance of faith?By considering all these questions honestly and privately, I hope they will help you to decide how you will come out of lockdown a better and stronger person.
Please do not send me answers to these questions as they are not a test. I do not pretend to have all the answers right in my own life but I just offer the above questions to you for careful contemplation.
Love God and stay safe!
Rhonda
Friday, 10 April 2020
Easter Lockdown
1. He greeted them with peace
Jesus had told His disciples before He went to Calvary, 'Let not your hearts be troubled...' (John 14v1-3); 'My peace I give unto you... In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world' (John 14v27; 16v33). So, may the peace of God that passes all understanding give you courage and strength at this time.
2. He showed them His scars
When the Lord entered the disciples' lockdown and showed them His scars, the Bible says, Then they were glad (v20). They were filled with gladness when they recognised their Lord. This resurrection morning, I encourage you to meditate upon the One with the nailprints in His hands. Dear Christian, as you contemplate upon what His death and resurrection mean for you, surely it will fill your heart with gladness. Coronavirus lockdown may be a fearful time for you but Christ can bring you joy and gladness. Do you recognise Christ as Lord in the midst of all the current crisis?
3. He rebuked them for their unbelief
However, Mark 16v14 tells us that Jesus rebuked them for their unbelief and hardness of heart because they believed not those who had seen Him after he was risen. Was the testimony of Mary Magdalene and the other women who saw the risen Lord not good enough? What about the witness of the two men who talked with Him on the Emmaus road? Why would they want to live in lockdown with unbelief and hardness of heart? I suppose the truth is they had not seen Him for themselves and 'seeing is believing.' However, Jesus did not commend them for their unbelief and hard hearts. In fact, Jesus said, "Blessed are they that have not seen, and yet have believed" (John 20v29).
None of us today have seen Jesus but by faith we believe on Him. The Lord does not want us to live in fear, unbelief and hardness of heart. He wants you to have the faith, peace and joy that are found in Him. Just because we cannot go to church and we are to stay at home, it does not mean we cannot believe and rejoice in the Risen Saviour!
4. He gave them the great commission
"Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature." (Mark 16v15)Later, before He ascended into heaven, He told them to teach all nations and to baptize them in the name of the Father, the Son and Holy Spirit (Matthew 28v19+20).
The disciples fearlessly fulfilled that great commission that Christ gave them, after they were endued with the power of the Holy Spirit. They did all they could in their then known world to preach and teach the gospel.
Christ still expects us as believers to proclaim and teach the gospel. These are strange days in which we are living and yet it is so amazing to see so many sermons, devotional messages and children's talks available online. I believe their effect will be very far reaching. Take time to listen to some of them this Easter and may they lead you to worship Christ the Risen Saviour with all of your heart.
So, as you are in lockdown this Easter, you can still remember the Risen Christ who is the Saviour of the world and may you find encouragement and strength from Him to help you through this time of coronavirus lockdown.
Friday, 10 January 2020
Remembering 2019
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Christmas 2019 |
At 58 years of age, my body tells me what it is able to cope with. I realize it is important to take time to relax, chillax, to refresh my body and to spend time with Adrian, Isaac and Jemima. This means that I must prioritize the things I do, even if it does not please everyone. Yes, and it has even meant cutting back a bit on my commitment to church activities.
Here are just a few things to think about as we enter 2020:
- Praise God for the good times and seek His strength and guidance in the difficult times
- Appreciate family and enjoy time with them
- Respect the body God gave you and do not burn yourself out
- Take care of your physical, spiritual and mental health
- Unity brings blessing from God and joy to your soul
- Try to resolve problems with others before they fester
- God's grace is sufficient for you in every situation in life.
"Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus." Phillippians 3v13-14 KJVThe New Year brings new challenges and opportunities. My sole focus for 2020 is to be Christ as I run in the spiritual race of life. I must not let the difficulties and struggles of the past year hold me back. May I ever keep my eye on the finishing line and the heavenly prize that God has for me!
Wishing you every blessing for 2020.
Rhonda